MEN
People talk about feminism,gender equality,evading hypocrisy and so on,but noone actually understands the exact meaning of these words.If women deserve to be equally treated in the society then there is no denying the fact that men too should be treated with equal priority.
Who really is a Man and how society describes him?
Well,as per my opinion unveiling the real face of a man lost in the midst of societal hypocrisy.
MAN
What exactly comes to your mind when you heard this word?Is it strength and love? Or hatred and discrimination? I guess there is a mixed feeling that comes from various people around the world.
Meanwhile,the definition says that a man is a beautiful creation of God who doesn't only sacrifice his dreams but starts compromising at a very tender age,I would instead say,from bearing responsibilities of his elder ones to handling work outside home,a small boy often grows into a man before anyone notices.You may call him insensitive,yet he can feel the pain just like other human beings,it's just that he's better at hiding it.The sufferings that he goes through and glows like a chiseled diamond which came out from graphite,never does he let anyone know his agony.
This story is not just a compilation of a few posters and some written material on it;this is an open letter from a woman like me to all those men who think their sufferings,struggles and pain go unrecognised.Believe me,the society may not know you,but many other women like me love you for who you are.
'THEY SAY MEN SHOULD PAY THE BILL.'
It's not the 18th century,
women earn as well.
I guess gender shouldn't be a criteria for paying bills.This is the 21st century,and I think,women earn too and sometimes they can also pay when on a date or at a restaurant with a man.
'ALL MEN ARE FULL OF LUST.'
Just because you've come across one such man,doesn't mean Men don't fall in love.
People often generalise their personal experience as public statements.Many girls might have come acoss wrong partners in their lifetime,but that doesn't mean you generalise the entire gender as 'wrong'.No!That won't do justice to this gender.
'MEN ALWAYS THINK AND TALK DOUBLE MEANING.'
Yeah right!
Women always discuss mythology.
It is not men who initiate intimate conversations every time.C'mon,even women talk shit and also initiate flirting.
THEY SAY, 'MEN DON'T GOSSIP '.
Men enjoy gossiping far more then they care to admit.
If you think that gossiping is a woman's birth right then,you're wrong.Men do like gossiping and sometimes bitch too.
THEY SAY, 'MEN DON'T CRY.'
They are more emotional than women,they're just better at hiding.
Yes,If you have been in a relationship with a man or you have a brother,you must be very well aware that men do have emotions.Just because they don't go weak in front of you in any situation,that doesn't mean they don't feel.They cry their heart out but never let anyone know.They do but never show.
'MEN ARE INSENSITIVE TO PAIN.'
Hurt their loved ones and they'll show you what pain feels like.
While men move around with a strong face and that too beecause society expects them to be like that,it doesn't make them less sensitive to pain.Nobody knows it better.
'MEN HAVE GENERAL RAPIST MENTALITY.'
Ever wondered of that single man who was strongly accused by a woman?
Yes,I agree that most men you may have come across are dogs,Staring at you,eve-teasing,trading you like a commodity but not all men are the same,Some have the sanity to fight against these evils of the society.
'MEN DON'T FEAR.'
Dare to check their heartbeat at night when
his sister or wife stays out after the clock strikes 9.
Oh,right!Ever seen the face of a man when his loved ones,especially the women of his house stay out late in the night?That's what fear feels like.The irony being,he knows that while one man is the protector,there is an animal from the same gender out there.
'MEN DON'T CARE!'
Ask that man who has brought-up a motherless child.
If you think so,you really need some mind brushing.Because not every man is careless just because he looks like that.Remember the phrase,never judge a book by its cover.
'A WOMAN WANTS TO MARRY A WELL-SETTLED MAN.'
But a man demanding to marry a settled girl is a hypocrite.
Why is it not fair for a man to dream of a beautiful woman who is also well-settled and he can marry? But in the same place,if a woman dreams of a well-groomed and settled man,she's fair in her demands.
What the hypocrisy!
People talk about feminism,gender equality,evading hypocrisy and so on,but noone actually understands the exact meaning of these words.If women deserve to be equally treated in the society then there is no denying the fact that men too should be treated with equal priority.
Who really is a Man and how society describes him?
Well,as per my opinion unveiling the real face of a man lost in the midst of societal hypocrisy.
MAN
What exactly comes to your mind when you heard this word?Is it strength and love? Or hatred and discrimination? I guess there is a mixed feeling that comes from various people around the world.
Meanwhile,the definition says that a man is a beautiful creation of God who doesn't only sacrifice his dreams but starts compromising at a very tender age,I would instead say,from bearing responsibilities of his elder ones to handling work outside home,a small boy often grows into a man before anyone notices.You may call him insensitive,yet he can feel the pain just like other human beings,it's just that he's better at hiding it.The sufferings that he goes through and glows like a chiseled diamond which came out from graphite,never does he let anyone know his agony.
This story is not just a compilation of a few posters and some written material on it;this is an open letter from a woman like me to all those men who think their sufferings,struggles and pain go unrecognised.Believe me,the society may not know you,but many other women like me love you for who you are.
'THEY SAY MEN SHOULD PAY THE BILL.'
It's not the 18th century,
women earn as well.
I guess gender shouldn't be a criteria for paying bills.This is the 21st century,and I think,women earn too and sometimes they can also pay when on a date or at a restaurant with a man.
'ALL MEN ARE FULL OF LUST.'
Just because you've come across one such man,doesn't mean Men don't fall in love.
People often generalise their personal experience as public statements.Many girls might have come acoss wrong partners in their lifetime,but that doesn't mean you generalise the entire gender as 'wrong'.No!That won't do justice to this gender.
'MEN ALWAYS THINK AND TALK DOUBLE MEANING.'
Yeah right!
Women always discuss mythology.
It is not men who initiate intimate conversations every time.C'mon,even women talk shit and also initiate flirting.
THEY SAY, 'MEN DON'T GOSSIP '.
Men enjoy gossiping far more then they care to admit.
If you think that gossiping is a woman's birth right then,you're wrong.Men do like gossiping and sometimes bitch too.
THEY SAY, 'MEN DON'T CRY.'
They are more emotional than women,they're just better at hiding.
Yes,If you have been in a relationship with a man or you have a brother,you must be very well aware that men do have emotions.Just because they don't go weak in front of you in any situation,that doesn't mean they don't feel.They cry their heart out but never let anyone know.They do but never show.
'MEN ARE INSENSITIVE TO PAIN.'
Hurt their loved ones and they'll show you what pain feels like.
While men move around with a strong face and that too beecause society expects them to be like that,it doesn't make them less sensitive to pain.Nobody knows it better.
'MEN HAVE GENERAL RAPIST MENTALITY.'
Ever wondered of that single man who was strongly accused by a woman?
Yes,I agree that most men you may have come across are dogs,Staring at you,eve-teasing,trading you like a commodity but not all men are the same,Some have the sanity to fight against these evils of the society.
'MEN DON'T FEAR.'
Dare to check their heartbeat at night when
his sister or wife stays out after the clock strikes 9.
Oh,right!Ever seen the face of a man when his loved ones,especially the women of his house stay out late in the night?That's what fear feels like.The irony being,he knows that while one man is the protector,there is an animal from the same gender out there.
'MEN DON'T CARE!'
Ask that man who has brought-up a motherless child.
If you think so,you really need some mind brushing.Because not every man is careless just because he looks like that.Remember the phrase,never judge a book by its cover.
'A WOMAN WANTS TO MARRY A WELL-SETTLED MAN.'
But a man demanding to marry a settled girl is a hypocrite.
Why is it not fair for a man to dream of a beautiful woman who is also well-settled and he can marry? But in the same place,if a woman dreams of a well-groomed and settled man,she's fair in her demands.
What the hypocrisy!
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